Scammer ladies stay one of the hardest and straitened problems for online dating. What kind of girls are they? So hard to understand them and to expose them.
First of all I am going to describe a sad story of my best friend and Russian girl. He came into contact with a pretty woman from Russia, he was so pleased! that Russian was so sensible and educated in e-mails, so good that he thought that she is that girl with whom they can organize true great family by international marriage and that only this Russian girl can become his Russian bride. They communicated for several months, he was so unfeigned in his messages and Russian girl answered with love and tender words.
The first puzzling things I felt after taking a look at her pictures. This russian girl sent to my friend pictures near so destitute places, so poor and tumbledown buildings, even foul street toilets. Why? That Russian woman wrote that she lives in this house, without electricity, without anything, that they have so unfortunate situation in her family.
Of course my friend was shocked, he was going to help his bride from Russia right from the heart!
But it was strange that one day she came to the web cam to the agency with trendy model of cell phone, sunglasses Gucci and dressed very well. He couldn't presume that he could meet dishonest woman, that she could be a impostor and can trick!
It is not necessary to depict the whole situation, because I know that my friend wouldn't be happy to read everything. Just I want to mention that one day this woman from Russia wrote the letter, that she wants to be with him, that she loves him with all her heart and ready to come. She wrote that in the travel bureau she received all necessary information, etc. And she asked him to send her money (more then 10000$). When my kind friend told to his Russian bride, that his friend will come to see her and give money and help her with everything, she changed instantly… I checked this girl from Russia and she had totally different life from the life she described in e-mails and by phone. It is splendid that we've exposed timely that she is a scammer girl.
I can write even more, but what I wanted to say - please! Be wary! Working in international marriage agency I saw a lot of similar situations. In such deals everything is under your control. Better come first to your Russian bride and say that you thought it would be better to prepare everything in cooperation with her, if your Russian girl has good intencions, she will be frankly happy to to prepare everything together. And anyway you will see her reaction. Or it is always possible to connect with the international marriage agency and they will assist you to solve this problem! Just be cautious! International marriage isn't simple!
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